Your relationship won't last that way.

There will come a time when she can no longer provide that "bedroom pay".

Spoiling her by giving her a free life will make it hard for her to break her bad habit of asking you for money all the time. When you can't meet her needs, she is on her way out the door to the next guy.

No money, No honey.

you are right admin, but I didn't say she can't work I just meant I won't ask for any payment for helping her from poverty, except that kind 

Maybe I really am. I have to reevaluate myself. Right now I'm in a dark place. 

You're obviously disgusted with modern society which in a way is a good thing because it is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a sick society. But you're thinking into this stuff way too much. That's why it is always good to keep an ice cold beer within arm's reach and to always maintain a buzz. If you can't accept alcoholism, then you are going to have to get creative. That or live with an enduring feeling of melancholy. Up to you. Whatever your choice, good luck.

Cowboy

TexasCowboy wrote on 3^rd Feb, 2014 at 7:03pm:


Oh yeah I know, I was teasing more or less about "saving" her. My idea is that I like low class girls because they tend to be less uptight than high-so girls. For example, I came form the USA and I enjoy eating rats, while some Lao people who live in a country where others actually eat BBQ'd rats don't want to eat them just because they are close-minded and see themselves as "high-so" and the rats are "poor people's food." Basically an impoverished girl would be as comfortable with being low class as I am and not do things like ask to go to the mall and look at brand name shoes, and they would be comfortable living in the village, unlike a high-so girl who always wants to be in a room with air-con and cable television. Basically, I'm "low class", I want someone low class like me.

I'm not marrying her because of rats, that was just an example to get you to understand my point.

Yep I'm talking about the field rats. City rats I would never eat. Anyways, my point is that these traditional girls don't act all stuck up like other girls and they will eat all of the true Lao food that I like to eat. I was in a Lao village and the men would go out and catch rats in the fields and bring them back and snap their necks and make them into delicious snacks.

"Wealthy people" only want to try American food and eat some BS like Pasta and Spaghetti. Don't think they're gonna be open minded about true Lao foods. I've eaten all the different types of Lao food. Once people move up in the social ladder they don't eat it anymore.

It's not just the food, they also think they're too good to wear the Sinh. They think they're so good that they only wanna wear pants. This is why I want to marry a poor girl. They don't need any air conditioning, they can live with me and eat rats and live the true Lao way. I was born in the USA but I feel more attached to being Lao than anyone else.

In my heart I'm a pure Lao so I wanna be with a pure Lao girl. Pure Lao doesn't eat macaroni, use facebook, and speak English.

Pure lao eats larb dib, rats, wears sinh and can live in the countryside without any conveniences.

No matter where I go, I never forget my roots.

well they have a Thai saying: something that is hard to get has great value