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azzuccar

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23^rd Mar, 2010 at 10:12pm

hi! can you help me please. i have just returned to england after two weeks in laos. i have met a very nice straight laos lady and we have become married at her parents home (approved by the headman) but we did not register officially. she wants to come to england. we visited the usa embasssy in ventianne (they deal with all uk visa requests) she applied for a visitor visa which was declined. i realise that we will have to register the marrige officially and then she can apply again. can you tell me what can i do to speed up the application. i have been warned that it could take a year and cost 2000$ and being treated as a cash machine. should i give up? i am sending her 20,000 bahts a month to help her family? am i crazy? please be honest!

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Pankeo Newbie to Lao Pride Offline I Love Laos! Posts: 27	Re: to marry a laos lady! Reply #1 - 23^rd Mar, 2010 at 10:31pm You known this girl for two weeks? I dont know but 20 thousand baht a month sounds crazy to me.
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Buk Hoo Kee Senior Member Offline Posts: 358 Laos Gender: Age: 32 Awards: 2	Re: to marry a laos lady! Reply #2 - 23^rd Mar, 2010 at 11:31pm I guess it's true what they say, " a sucker is born every day ". Actually I like this one, " a fool and his money are soon parted ". This is as honest as I can be, without laughing, haha. Just cause they are poor, doesn't mean they aren't scandalous. By the way, just out of curiosity, do you own a BMW?
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azzuccar Newbie to Lao Pride Offline I Love Laos! Posts: 5	Re: to marry a laos lady! Reply #3 - 23^rd Mar, 2010 at 11:39pm hmmmm.......... the trouble is i beleive people. a soft touch and a sucker! thats me! thanks for your honesty! maybe i should enter a monastry!!!!!! lol
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Reply #4 - 24^th Mar, 2010 at 12:25am

You can't really speed the process...you just have to wait and be patient. Did you really know the girl for 2 weeks? If this is the case you are screwed. You jumped the gun way too soon bud. I can guarantee you if you go through with this, the odds of her leaving you is 99% give or take 1-2 years. Otherwise, give up your citizenship and remain in Laos. Keep her there, and the marriage could last a lifetime.

It's your call, there's still that 1% that she'll remain loyal to you for the rest of your life. Be sure to keep me and everyone posted after 1-2 years okay?

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Reply #5 - 24^th Mar, 2010 at 5:01am

Azzuccar, $2000 USD is actually not bad on average. Many foreigners pay $3,500 USD and more to run the marriage paperwork, and sometimes it takes 6 months.

But sending 20,000 baht ($590 USD) a month to help her family is definately crazy like Pankeo said. Most people earn 3,000 - 5,000 baht per month in Laos just to give you some information.

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macro Junior Member Offline I Love Laos! Posts: 55	Re: to marry a laos lady! Reply #6 - 24^th Mar, 2010 at 11:34am I agree with Jackspade, leave her there and have a baby for a few years before get her to US, you might increase your odd to 20%, of course there is always exceptions, always someone win lotto, howcome never me or someone that I knew win ? It's not love, it's the hormone that does the trick. Good luck !
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Reply #7 - 24^th Mar, 2010 at 2:58pm

c'mon guys.. give the man a break!!!

he probably had the best time of his life in that 2 weeks span. she must of treat him like a king... i guess when you're in love and happy, money is no object.. $600 per month is a lot of $$$..

technically.. you can't get marry cause they do not give you a marriage license .. they call it engagement party..

as for getting her visa approve.. i've heard all kind of stories, some took only a month and some a year or two.. plus spending so much $$$ on pushing them papers around.. things haven't change that much in laos, if you push those papers along with some cash.. most likely your documents will get approve faster.

good luck Azzuccar!!!

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Reply #8 - 24^th Mar, 2010 at 5:52pm

Buk IIWJ wrote on 24^th Mar, 2010 at 2:58pm:

c'mon guys.. give the man a break!!!

he probably had the best time of his life in that 2 weeks span. she must of treat him like a king... i guess when you're in love and happy, money is no object.. $600 per month is a lot of $$$..

technically.. you can't get marry cause they do not give you a marriage license .. they call it engagement party..

as for getting her visa approve.. i've heard all kind of stories, some took only a month and some a year or two.. plus spending so much $$$ on pushing them papers around.. things haven't change that much in laos, if you push those papers along with some cash.. most likely your documents will get approve faster.

good luck Azzuccar!!!

You are absolutely right!! Poor guy is probably stressing out right now. LOL

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tewada Newbie to Lao Pride Offline I will be in Laos soon! Posts: 26	Re: to marry a laos lady! Reply #9 - 24^th Mar, 2010 at 6:29pm wow, 600 USD a month and this all obviously without any illegal pre-marital intimacy !!!
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Buk IIWJ Junior Member Offline I Love Laos! Posts: 54 ThatLuang, Laos P.D.R. Gender: Age: 44	Re: to marry a laos lady! Reply #10 - 24^th Mar, 2010 at 7:51pm tewada wrote on 24^th Mar, 2010 at 6:29pm: wow, 600 USD a month and this all obviously without any illegal pre-marital intimacy !!! yea.. i know eh!! i can live comfortably with a budget of $600 a month.
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azzuccar Newbie to Lao Pride Offline I Love Laos! Posts: 5	Re: to marry a laos lady! Reply #11 - 24^th Mar, 2010 at 11:50pm pre-marital intimacy! i love that phrase! we did indulge! thank you for all of your advice! i was naive to think that it could work out. pity because i had a dream........
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Tee Senior Member Offline My Home,My love and my only place to be R.I.P Posts: 328 Sydney, Australia Gender:	Re: to marry a laos lady! Reply #12 - 26^th Mar, 2010 at 4:49am This is a lesson for you to learn! Next time use your big head to think not the little head between your legs! if you do used the little head to think, the out come always...this way.......
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tewada Newbie to Lao Pride Offline I will be in Laos soon! Posts: 26	Re: to marry a laos lady! Reply #13 - 26^th Mar, 2010 at 8:18am Tee - you sound like a preacher!
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Tee Senior Member Offline My Home,My love and my only place to be R.I.P Posts: 328 Sydney, Australia Gender:	Re: to marry a laos lady! Reply #14 - 26^th Mar, 2010 at 11:31am tewada wrote on 26^th Mar, 2010 at 8:18am: Tee - you sound like a preacher! I'm sorry to disappoint you! what make you think I am? I just a humble man. earning just a few dollars to survive each day.
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