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Message started by WorriedinPakse on 12th Jun, 2011 at 2:59am

Title: Baby problems
Post by WorriedinPakse on 12th Jun, 2011 at 2:59am
A man I know met a Laos girl in Pattaya. Fell in love, got her pregnant. She returned to Laos to her village near Savannakhet and in January had a baby girl. My friend went to visit her, and stayed a week. Whilst there he was visited by the police and had to pay a $1000 bribe to avoid being arrested.
Anyhow, any information, websites etc on how to get his baby a passport. He wants to take the girl and his daughter to England and live there. Presently he is back in England working to save money for his next trip to Laos.

Title: Re: Baby problems
Post by ThereIsLifeAfterABrokenHeart on 12th Jun, 2011 at 3:37am
Hope for the best for your friend, his girl and baby.

Title: Re: Baby problems
Post by Admin Saovaluck on 12th Jun, 2011 at 3:38am
"Lao girl in Pattaya, Thailand, returning to Savannakhet, Laos. Slept with a foreigner and had a baby."

This sounds to me like she is a prostitute.

He deserves to pay the police, he is lucky that he didn't pay more than that.

Title: Re: Baby problems
Post by Lao Lan Xang on 13th Jun, 2011 at 3:22pm
Your friends should go to Laos and marry her. If he want to bring her to England.
;)

Title: Re: Baby problems
Post by JSEA on 15th Jun, 2011 at 2:43pm
Haven't most of the people here said not to bring a girl back to the west cuz it always ends up in divorce?

I'm not sure what exactly it is, but it seems like when farang go to Thailand/Laos they have girls throwing themselves at them, and when Lao/Thai girls go to the west they have men throwing themselves at them. Either way that seems like the biggest reason these relationships don't work out in the long run.

I guess I've just heard too many horror stories :(

Title: Re: Baby problems
Post by DontStopBelievin on 15th Jun, 2011 at 5:39pm
You are not hearing too many horror stories.  A co-worker (farang) of mine went to Bangkok, married a Thai lady, brought her to the US and she left him for another farang.

Reasons would be more options/opportunities/grass is greener somewhere else  etc......

Title: Re: Baby problems
Post by WorriedinPakse on 16th Jun, 2011 at 2:52am
Surely the baby will have a birth certificate.Will the father be named,if girl is unmarried?If so ,will be easy to get the baby a British passport.
Also, the girl will be able to get a Laos passport for the child,then take it to Thailand.
How about getting married in Laos with an unmarried mother?
Does anybody have any idea what he can do?

Title: Re: Baby problems
Post by Lao Lan Xang on 16th Jun, 2011 at 3:41pm
Not all the lady are like that. Some will love you and stay with you, some will leave when they get their green card.
;) :)



JSEA wrote on 15th Jun, 2011 at 2:43pm:
Haven't most of the people here said not to bring a girl back to the west cuz it always ends up in divorce?

I'm not sure what exactly it is, but it seems like when farang go to Thailand/Laos they have girls throwing themselves at them, and when Lao/Thai girls go to the west they have men throwing themselves at them. Either way that seems like the biggest reason these relationships don't work out in the long run.

I guess I've just heard too many horror stories :(


Title: Re: Baby problems
Post by Lao Lan Xang on 16th Jun, 2011 at 3:42pm
Go to Laos and marry her and do all the paper work.
;)




WorriedinPakse wrote on 16th Jun, 2011 at 2:52am:
Surely the baby will have a birth certificate.Will the father be named,if girl is unmarried?If so ,will be easy to get the baby a British passport.
Also, the girl will be able to get a Laos passport for the child,then take it to Thailand.
How about getting married in Laos with an unmarried mother?
Does anybody have any idea what he can do?


Title: Re: Baby problems
Post by LaoguySoCal on 24th Jun, 2011 at 1:48am

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 12th Jun, 2011 at 3:38am:
"Lao girl in Pattaya, Thailand, returning to Savannakhet, Laos. Slept with a foreigner and had a baby."

This sounds to me like she is a prostitute.

He deserves to pay the police, he is lucky that he didn't pay more than that.

admin, please don't assume anything.  She may not be a prostitute.  I think most prostitutes probably have a safe sex or other words protect themselves from getting pregnant.  Would you protect yourself if you were a prostitute.  Just my 2 cents.

Title: Re: Baby problems
Post by Searching4TheRainbowInTheRose on 24th Jun, 2011 at 2:47am
The most important thing is two people created a life ;).

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