Reasons why Lao girls marry western men


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Lao men in Laos have a reputation as gamblers and habitual drunkards who like to sit on their bums with no money. Some of them still have a mistress or still frequent the bars to flirt with young girls even after they get married. The same reasons why women outside the Lao race aren't particularly interested in having a relationship with Lao guys in Laos. In saying this, there are also many positives about Lao men that you wouldn't find in Thai men.

Many "nice Lao girls" are not looking for western men (falang men) as a boyfriend or husband, but just like girls of other races, they want a man who is financially stable and someone who will love them, take care of them and protect them, and many western men have these qualities.

Its human nature. Nothing is wrong with that nobody want to be poor. I rather marry a rich women then a broke women too. I want to drive BMW not Honda. hehehe
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Admin Saovaluck wrote on 23^rd May, 2011 at 12:11am:

Reasons why Lao girls marry western men http://www.laopride.com/pictures1/lao-girls-marrying-western-men.jpg   Lao men in Laos have a reputation as gamblers and habitual drunkards who like to sit on their bums with no money. Some of them still have a mistress or still frequent the bars to flirt with young girls even after they get married. The same reasons why women outside the Lao race aren't particularly interested in having a relationship with Lao guys in Laos. In saying this, there are also many positives about Lao men that you wouldn't find in Thai men. Many "nice Lao girls" are not looking for western men (falang men) as a boyfriend or husband, but just like girls of other races, they want a man who is financially stable and someone who will love them, take care of them and protect them, and many western men have these qualities.

Same reason why Lao Isan women marry farang.
;)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Vxz_LPVt34

Thanks for going on record and letting the whole world know our 'sisters' who marry falang are gold diggers and our 'brothers' are playboys. Are you a part of the former contingent too?

Larb Dip wrote on 23^rd May, 2011 at 4:30am:

Thanks for going on record and letting the whole world know our 'sisters' who marry falang are gold diggers and our 'brothers' are playboys. Are you a part of the former contingent too?

;D ;D ;D

Just something I wanted to share, but Lao guys are still the most sought after partner for many local girls in Laos.

Only the conservative uneducated Lao girls.

You know you're right about them, gold digging and all. ;D ;D ;D

I'm sure you're looking to ca$h in on a tourist yourself?

I don't want to rule anything out.

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 23^rd May, 2011 at 9:08am:

I don't want to rule anything out.

ooowwwhhhhhhhh. We've come a long way you and me, in such a short span of time. Why can't you be as honest on other topics?

Do you prefer JUST falang, or will international Lao men do too? (I think I already know the answer to that one).

Is that photo an authentic gold digger portrait?

If you already know the answer then there's no need to ask.

She may genuinely love him for who he is, it's not nice to call people gold diggers.

I don't think it matter if some women marry Lao or farang husband. As long as they love, take care and supported each other. Many Asian American also marry other ethnicity.

Even in America if you don't have good jobs or education most women will not marry you. Sometime it's about money here and everything cost money. Not just in Laos. Men is the head of household and women want someone who's responsible.
;)

Agreed not all Lao men are bad. Thank for clearing that out. We Lao guy are the best and also take good care of our women. So give Lao guy a chance k Admins.
;) :D :o


Admin Saovaluck wrote on 23^rd May, 2011 at 6:17am:

Just something I wanted to share, but Lao guys are still the most sought after partner for many local girls in Laos.

Personally for me, a Lao 'Sugar Mommy' would be really nice;D :D ;D :D ;D ;D :D.

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 23^rd May, 2011 at 10:18am:

If you already know the answer then there's no need to ask.

I want to hear/read you say/type it. Lao boys not good enough for you, nang?:'(


Admin Saovaluck wrote on 23^rd May, 2011 at 10:18am:

She may genuinely love him for who he is, it's not nice to call people gold diggers.

What euphemism would these parasites prefer to answer to then?

Lao boys are good too, but we don't really have anything alike, unless they like western/Thai foods and they are into Judy Garland.

Larb Dip do you want to live in poverty, and work as a farmer? I don't see anything wrong with Asian women wanting to marry western men to get out of poverty. As long as the men love and respected them.

Western men alway get hot hot Asian women though. Even in America. I'm jealous sometime.
;) :D ;D


Larb Dip wrote on 23^rd May, 2011 at 7:44pm:

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 23rd May, 2011 at 10:18am: If you already know the answer then there's no need to ask. I want to hear/read you say/type it. Lao boys not good enough for you, nang?:'( Admin Saovaluck wrote on 23rd May, 2011 at 10:18am: She may genuinely love him for who he is, it's not nice to call people gold diggers. What euphemism would these parasites prefer to answer to then?

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 23^rd May, 2011 at 8:57pm:

Lao boys are good too, but we don't really have anything alike, unless they like western/Thai foods and they are into Judy Garland.

You're right, Lao boys are too masculine and proud for those sort of things - the latter in particular! ;) Good luck on finding your dream 'man'! Based on your fetishes, it sounds like your 'man's' estrogen levels outnumber his testoterones, as far as the hormone continuum is concerned. It's highly likely you're looking to live happily ever after with someone who gestures greetings with an elastic wrist. Is it because you like wearing the pants? Nobody is going to dominate MY best friend, right? Nobody can bully my dear administarator!

llX wrote on 23^rd May, 2011 at 10:14pm:

Larb Dip do you want to be poor and work as a farmer? I don't see anything worng with Asian women wanting to marry western men to get out of poverty. As long as the men love and respected them. Western men alway get hot hot Asian women though. Even in America. I'm jealous sometime. ;) :D ;D

If anything I'm high-fiving these old buggers for their 'accomplishment'. Shitt, I'd want a teenage wife too once I'm in my advanced years. ;)

I just wanted to know if the stereotype was true: what the ladies want. I don't think the cliche will change, any time soon.

Women want to get out of poverty. As long as she over 18 and want to get marry. I don't see nothing wrong with that.  It better for farang to marry our Asian women then just paying them for sex. In Thailand they say about 75,000 farang are marry to Lao women and living in Isan. If farang don't marry some of them, they probably end up working in Bangkok go go bar anyway. Let look at the brighter side. Hehe In my opinion.
;)


Larb Dip wrote on 24^th May, 2011 at 3:24am:

llX wrote on 23rd May, 2011 at 10:14pm: Larb Dip do you want to be poor and work as a farmer? I don't see anything worng with Asian women wanting to marry western men to get out of poverty. As long as the men love and respected them. Western men alway get hot hot Asian women though. Even in America. I'm jealous sometime. ;) :D ;D If anything I'm high-fiving these old buggers for their 'accomplishment'. Shitt, I'd want a teenage wife too once I'm in my advanced years. ;) I just wanted to know if the stereotype was true: what the ladies want. I don't think the cliche will change, any time soon.

llX wrote on 24^th May, 2011 at 3:47am:

Women want to get out of poverty. As long as she over 18 and want to get marry. I don't see nothing wrong with that.  It better for farang to marry our Asian women then just paying them for sex. In Thailand they say about 75,000 farang are marry to Lao women and living in Isan. If farang don't marry some of them, they probably end up working in Bangkok go go bar anyway. Let look at the brighter side. Hehe In my opinion. ;)

That is alot man. Where do you get your facts from?

Why is it that we all live under this illusion that all women, not just Lao..but all women are in this mindset that they have to find some guy to "take care" of them?...who set this rule?...don't get me wrong as I have no problem with contributing to a good relationship...but it cracks me up that we all think that we all have to follow this same set of criteria...man meets woman, man asks woman to commit to him, man must provide, woman must cook and bear children...etc etc...Whats wrong with the woman going out and providing...financially?....Break the mold folks and set your own set of personal criteria within your own relationship

Drfeelgood, I believe that women in western countries should also work and provide financially, because the extra few thousand dollars a month is handy to help with the mortgage and so on.

However, when we're talking about a relationship between a foreigner and a girl in Laos, it's a different ball game and something for each relationship to think about. Working women in Laos earns about $100 - $200 per month. The question is, will it be beneficial for the both of you, if she spends all day at work for $5? Or will she be more useful at home doing the chores and looking after the children?

I see your point...but my point is that each relationship needs to be looked at differently and the automatic assumption should not be that the man goes and works and pays and the woman stays at home...Maybe we need to get out of that mindset in order to start changing the way things are presumed



Admin Saovaluck wrote on 24^th May, 2011 at 7:23pm:

Drfeelgood, I believe that women in western countries should also work and provide financially, because the extra few thousand dollars a month is handy to help with the mortgage and so on. However, when we're talking about a relationship between a foreigner and a girl in Laos, it's a different ball game and something for each relationship to think about. Working women in Laos earns about $100 - $200 per month. The question is, will it be beneficial for the both of you, if she spends all day at work for $5? Or will she be more useful at home doing the chores and looking after the children?

I understand that each relationship needs to be looked at differently, but most people who deal with girls in Laos can expect to pay for most of the expenses. We all know that a typical girl in Laos can't contribute much, financially, in the relationship, unless you bring her overseas to live and work.

Old man, who lives in Laos but has now left us, once said that his Lao wife stays at home to look after him. There's no point working for a few dollars a day when your foreign husband is earning thousands a month.

I agreed with your point Admins. Some might not understand because in Western country men and women is 50/50. Many women also work and has good jobs. Sometime Western men stay home and watch the kids. If I live in Laos. I'll be like Old Man and let my wife stay home, and watch TV instead of working if she's only making $60 a month.
;)

In western countries, the couple must share the expenses. Laos is a different society. If a girl marries a foreigner and she stays at home, people will consider that "normal". But you'll need to do more than just watch TV at home.

In the US, it would be a dream for a family to have one person working (husband or wife) to financially support the family financially while the other stays at home and take care of the kids.  I think this scenario creates stronger family bond.

Yes definitely the same scenario in Laos to have the wife stays at home (due to the low pay that she is getting) and take care of the kiddos whilst the husband works because of the much higher pays to support the family.  I think it is a win-win situation for the family core.

 

Bangkokpost.com
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Larb Dip wrote on 24^th May, 2011 at 9:38am:

llX wrote on 24th May, 2011 at 3:47am: Women want to get out of poverty. As long as she over 18 and want to get marry. I don't see nothing wrong with that.  It better for farang to marry our Asian women then just paying them for sex. In Thailand they say about 75,000 farang are marry to Lao women and living in Isan. If farang don't marry some of them, they probably end up working in Bangkok go go bar anyway. Let look at the brighter side. Hehe In my opinion. ;) That is alot man. Where do you get your facts from?

In the US they split everything in 1/2. About 50% of marriage in the US also end up in divorce. So whatever they're doing over here it's not working when it come to marriage.
;)


Admin Saovaluck wrote on 24^th May, 2011 at 10:55pm:

In western countries, the couple must share the expenses. Laos is a different society. If a girl marries a foreigner and she stays at home, people will consider that "normal". But you'll need to do more than just watch TV at home.

Yes, people say they love each other forever, but sometimes marriages don't always last.

Women in Laos have the tendency to put up with their husbands, even though we know that they are up to no good.

How common are divorces in Laos?

That's good that husband and wife stick together. In American sometime they're too selfish and like to cheat on each other. Here sometime if the husband and wife get bored of each other they just leave and find someone else.
;)


Admin Saovaluck wrote on 25^th May, 2011 at 8:02am:

Yes, people say they love each other forever, but sometimes marriages don't always last. Women in Laos have the tendency to put up with their husbands, even though we know that they are up to no good.

Larb Dip wrote on 25^th May, 2011 at 9:54am:

How common are divorces in Laos?

I don't know the statistics but divorces in Laos are probably less frequent than the USA, judging by many people I know.

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 26^th May, 2011 at 1:19am:

I don't know the statistics but divorces in Laos are probably less frequent than the USA, judging by many people I know.

What's that supposed to mean?

It sounds like those people you know are in unhappy relationships but still stay together?

It means I know many people in Laos who are still living together in their first and only marriage.

Whether or not their relationship is a happy one stays behind closed doors.

When potential grooms recite their proposal, is it still those three vowels, "see aow bo?".

Very QUICK and straight to the point.

The bride and groom don't say anything to each other during the "soo kuan" ceremony.

Do you know what a 'proposal' is?

You are so naive my young friend. :)

No, I don't.

What's with the silly question? People obviously propose differently. I don't follow everyone around to see how they'll ask their girlfriend.

Have you been proposed to yet, nang?

Not for marriage because I haven't been in a relationship.

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 29^th May, 2011 at 10:44pm:

Not for marriage because I haven't been in a relationship.

I can't believe my eyes. Have you ever been courted?

Plenty of times.

So.....why the hesitation?

If THIS isn't an enigma, then I don't know what is. You're so pretty. ;)

Because I'm a busy person, and I don't have time for anyone.

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 30^th May, 2011 at 9:48am:

Because I'm a busy person, and I don't have time for anyone.

What about these days? The last time we discussed your ambitions in regards to your love life, weren't you on the lookout for a falang?

I have relatives who are married to "falang" (westerners), and I don't mind them either.

I won't hide the fact that I love Chilean guys, but any White, Black or Asian is fine with me, if they have many similarities.

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 30^th May, 2011 at 9:48pm:

I have relatives who are married to "falang" (westerners), and I don't mind them either. I won't hide the fact that I love Chilean guys, but any White, Black or Asian is fine with me, if they have many similarities.

Any? ANY? ANY?

'Any White, Black or Asian is fine'. :) :) :)

What about Larb Dip the charismatic? What are my chances? :)
The past is the past. Maybe you can convert me into a devout Judy Garland fan like yourself. :)

What's holding sway with the Chileans? How are they stealing all the stunning girls? >:(

Your chance is 0%. I'm going to America, not New Zealand.

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 31^st May, 2011 at 5:08am:

Your chance is 0%. I'm going to America, not New Zealand.

I do not like the Communist, please do not come to America( Pathet Patikan). Go some where else.

I have 2 heads elephant. A small one for the Communist Only.

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 31^st May, 2011 at 5:08am:

Your chance is 0%. I'm going to America, not New Zealand.

:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

Sounds like you've found a potenetial husband. It doesn't matter. Nah ah! I'M STILL IN LOVE WITH YOU! ;D

How long do I still have to pester you?

Be nice bro. Lao nai Lao nork, we are Lao and need to united and help build Laos. If a young communist person living in America they'll become Americanized.
;)



Want Laos To Be Independence wrote on 31^st May, 2011 at 7:29am:

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 31st May, 2011 at 5:08am: Your chance is 0%. I'm going to America, not New Zealand. I do not like the Communist, please do not come to America( Pathet Patikan). Go some where else. I have 2 heads elephant. A small one for the Communist Only.

Look like Admins found American husband.
;) :o


Larb Dip wrote on 31^st May, 2011 at 8:32am:

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 31st May, 2011 at 5:08am: Your chance is 0%. I'm going to America, not New Zealand. :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( Sounds like you've found a potenetial husband. It doesn't matter. Nah ah! I'M STILL IN LOVE WITH YOU! ;D How long do I still have to pester you?

Want Laos To Be Independence wrote on 31^st May, 2011 at 7:29am:

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 31st May, 2011 at 5:08am: Your chance is 0%. I'm going to America, not New Zealand. I do not like the Communist, please do not come to America( Pathet Patikan). Go some where else. I have 2 heads elephant. A small one for the Communist Only.

Speaking of Lao being sponsored and moving to America, it all depends what their agendas are.  They come here to work and find opportunity and a new life, the government here has no issue with that.  If you come here from Laos and start political problems or do anything illegal towards the government or harm their citizens, I can assure you this person will get deported back to Laos along with his/her family that brought him here.  In the past, it has happened in some cases.

I'm pretty sure the admin means well and plan on coming here with good intentions.  You are being prejudice and discriminative now.  So, you are saying your family are all Communist as well right? I am referring to your family currently living in Laos.  To me,  the real Communist are the government/political figures, those are the ones you need to rage your anger towards not the people.  In the forum, she can't even voice her opinion in regards to politics, she has to use caution.  If our government for example, took all our freedom away, you and I would be doing exactly the same thing...does that make us bad?

I think something happened in  the past to you or your family member, and you are still not over it.  I can understand that, however, we need to move on and try to do what is right to help fix the problem so it doesn't happen again.

Some who fought against Communist during the war is still angry. I can understand their anger. I agreed with JACKSPACE we shouldn't be angry with every person living in Laos. Lao citizens has no say and no freedom.
:)

What is this freedom you speak of?? The freedom to get molested by highschool failures before boarding a plane? The freedom to have the shit beaten out of you by police? The freedom to be shot during no knock drug raids? The freedom to have dumbass republican citizens voting for handing more and more personal rights over to corporate entities?

A lot of the posts on here really reek of second generation Lao immigrants who are pissed off at the communist government only because that's what they were told by their parents when they were growing up.

The Vietnam war was a complete waste of human life, and ultimately didn't change anything. You think democracy would really make the lives of rural Lao farmers any better? If that's the case why aren't Thai Issaan people better off? Thailand has "democracy"...but it hasn't helped the poor in the provinces any. Democracy, communism, whatever, any type of government isn't an automatic magical solution to a country's problems. Ultimately you have to change the hearts and souls of all the people in a nation, or even the world to make any difference...and good luck with that.

At least in Laos/Thailand I don't have to be a gay republican senator in order to be able to afford bribing the man.


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JSEA wrote on 1^st Jun, 2011 at 11:43am:

What is this freedom you speak of?? The freedom to get molested by highschool failures before boarding a plane? The freedom to have the nuts beaten out of you by police? The freedom to be shot during no knock drug raids? The freedom to have dumbass republican citizens voting for handing more and more personal rights over to corporate entities? A lot of the posts on here really reek of second generation Lao immigrants who are pissed off at the communist government only because that's what they were told by their parents when they were growing up. The Vietnam war was a complete waste of human life, and ultimately didn't change anything. You think democracy would really make the lives of rural Lao farmers any better? If that's the case why aren't Thai Issaan people better off? Thailand has "democracy"...but it hasn't helped the poor in the provinces any. Democracy, communism, whatever, any type of government isn't an automatic magical solution to a country's problems. Ultimately you have to change the hearts and souls of all the people in a nation, or even the world to make any difference...and good luck with that. At least in Laos/Thailand I don't have to be a gay republican senator in order to be able to afford bribing the man. </rant>

Freedom is when you have a choice of being able to do the things you want to do without being told/threaten by someone else or the TPTB.  Politicians (Republicans/Democrats) are nothing but a disguise by their puppeteers (the corporation).  They tell us what to say, how to think, and what to believe.  It's getting worse these days, especially in the United States.  You may have notice civil liberties are being taken away in exchange for Homeland security BS.  I'm glad more and more people are starting to wake up and realize that.  Sadly, the downside to this situation is the majority are still in sheep clothing, while others only talk the talk. But, aren't willing to walk the walk.  

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 31^st May, 2011 at 5:08am:

Your chance is 0%. I'm going to America, not New Zealand.

Won't you miss Laos? There's no place like home, buddy. :)

I don't even live in Laos and I already miss it. Maybe it's just the pusao, and NOT Laos. :-?

I'm not going today, I'm just planning for the future which could be many years down the track. Maybe I'll miss Laos initially, but I'll move on pretty quickly. Once you make new friends, stay occupied at work, you become used to your new environment.

If you miss it, then visit it.

Good point Admins. If you miss Laos, then visits and spend your hard earn cash there to help the locals economies.
;)

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 1^st Jun, 2011 at 9:25pm:

I'm not going today, I'm just planning for the future which could be many years down the track. Maybe I'll miss Laos initially, but I'll move on pretty quickly. Once you make new friends, stay occupied at work, you become used to your new environment. If you miss it, then visit it.

I noticed your total posts came out to 2012.  Maybe that's a hint, you'll be coming to America next year. :)

Good observation, I never take any notice of that.

Next year is a bit too early but I will go one day for a visit first.

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 1^st Jun, 2011 at 9:25pm:

I'm not going today, I'm just planning for the future which could be many years down the track. Maybe I'll miss Laos initially, but I'll move on pretty quickly. Once you make new friends, stay occupied at work, you become used to your new environment.

If you are serious about relocating to the US, then I suggest you take it upon yourself to make that happen. That piece of 'paper' which you acquired as a student in Laos, is void. There are plenty of courses over the internet which you could easily undertake while sitting in front of the T.V. or computer (that's where you spend most of your time, right) via correspondence. Your chances of gaining residancy in any Western country as an 'unskilled' worker are close to none. However, with you being a 'dependant' and all, (how many servants did you say you have?), it may be best for you to marry your way in. Just my 2 cents.


Admin Saovaluck wrote on 1^st Jun, 2011 at 9:25pm:

If you miss it, then visit it.

I'd also love to visit you too.

You see how you always lead me on?

Dip, Admin is a man bro.  Didn't you see the pic and she/he did admitted as well ;D.


Larb Dip wrote on 2^nd Jun, 2011 at 5:58am:

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 1st Jun, 2011 at 9:25pm: I'm not going today, I'm just planning for the future which could be many years down the track. Maybe I'll miss Laos initially, but I'll move on pretty quickly. Once you make new friends, stay occupied at work, you become used to your new environment. If you are serious about relocating to the US, then I suggest you take it upon yourself to make that happen. That piece of 'paper' which you acquired as a student in Laos, is void. There are plenty of courses over the internet which you could easily undertake while sitting in front of the T.V. or computer (that's where you spend most of your time, right) via correspondence. Your chances of gaining residancy in any Western country as an 'unskilled' worker are close to none. However, with you being a 'dependant' and all, (how many servants did you say you have?), it may be best for you to marry your way in. Just my 2 cents. Admin Saovaluck wrote on 1st Jun, 2011 at 9:25pm: If you miss it, then visit it. I'd also love to visit you too. You see how you always lead me on?

PEACE wrote on 2^nd Jun, 2011 at 1:48pm:

Dip, Admin is a man bro.  Didn't you see the pic and she/he did admitted as well ;D.

I think you're right. ;) There will be no more flirting on my part with the admin'.

Hahaha, right, I think you'd flirt with anything that had lady parts orifices and a heartbeat. :P

Larb Dip wrote on 2^nd Jun, 2011 at 8:22pm:

There will be no more flirting on my part with the admin'.

I'll remember that. Go out and find yourself a girlfriend to flirt with.

Larb Dip is lonely. What he need is to find a wife in Laos.
;) :D


Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3^rd Jun, 2011 at 10:03pm:

Larb Dip wrote on 2nd Jun, 2011 at 8:22pm: There will be no more flirting on my part with the admin'. I'll remember that. Go out and find yourself a girlfriend to flirt with.

ARe there not plenty of Lao Pusaos in New Zealand that he can hook up with one of them ::)?

To find tradition Lao wife Laos is the place. Same as the US some Lao-American women are little too westernized, and sometime too much partying, some don't know how to cook. Same go with the guy.
;)


PEACE wrote on 4^th Jun, 2011 at 3:21am:

ARe there not plenty of Lao Pusaos in New Zealand that he can hook up with one of them ::)?

Agree.  We in the western society are too spoiled with materialism.   I am hoping Laos does not go that route that much.

Thing alway change. Laos has the youngest population in Asia. The average age is 20 year old. Some are influences by Thai, Korea, Japanese and western culture too.
;)



PEACE wrote on 4^th Jun, 2011 at 4:02am:

Agree.  We in the western society are too spoiled with materialism.   I am hoping Laos does not go that route that much.

Speaking of age, can anyone guess how old Admin might be?

I see a lot of western influence over here, also Korean. Many of the younger middle class Thais are just as obsessed with money, fashion, the latest cell phones/gadgets as their western/Korean counterparts. In some cases it's even worse than in the west because people seem to think they are actually little princes/princesses.

It's pretty bad, because you take the Thai traditional idea that the girl is supposed to cook/clean, and be supported by the guy, and then combine it with more liberal western ideas (feminism, independence, consumerism), and for the most part you get the worst combination ever.

That is, you don't get smart girls that can support themselves. You get uber princesses that cheated/paid their way through school with daddy's money, expect all the benefits of independence and feminism, but none of the responsibilities, but still expect the guy to pay for everything, and practically be their servant (e.g. "take me to the mall", "why didn't you buy me a new purse for our 6 month quarter anniversary", etc....).

Sad thing is, the exact same thing can be said for many of the GUYS here...and don't get me started on Korean fashion, someone needs to just nuke all the Korean fashion designers from orbit.

Anyway, I think maybe Laos will follow the same path eventually, kinda sad really.

I ask her before. She saids she's in her early 20's. Maybe 22-23 year old.
:)


PEACE wrote on 4^th Jun, 2011 at 4:28am:

Speaking of age, can anyone guess how old Admin might be?

I know what you're talking about. Thai are crazy about western culture. They been like that for hundred of year. Laos also love Korean, Japanese fashion. Look at their hair.
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JSEA wrote on 4^th Jun, 2011 at 4:35am:

I see a lot of western influence over here, also Korean. Many of the younger middle class Thais are just as obsessed with money, fashion, the latest cell phones/gadgets as their western/Korean counterparts. In some cases it's even worse than in the west because people seem to think they are actually little princes/princesses. It's pretty bad, because you take the Thai traditional idea that the girl is supposed to cook/clean, and be supported by the guy, and then combine it with more liberal western ideas (feminism, independence, consumerism), and for the most part you get the worst combination ever. That is, you don't get smart girls that can support themselves. You get uber princesses that cheated/paid their way through school with daddy's money, expect all the benefits of independence and feminism, but none of the responsibilities, but still expect the guy to pay for everything, and practically be their servant (e.g. "take me to the mall", "why didn't you buy me a new purse for our 6 month quarter anniversary", etc....). Sad thing is, the exact same thing can be said for many of the GUYS here...and don't get me started on Korean fashion, someone needs to just nuke all the Korean fashion designers from orbit. Anyway, I think maybe Laos will follow the same path eventually, kinda sad really.

Admin Saovaluck wrote on 3^rd Jun, 2011 at 10:03pm:

I'll remember that. Go out and find yourself a girlfriend to flirt with.

What do you think I have been doing all this time, baby? :-*

As soon as I threaten to take my love away, suddenly you connive - by uploading multiple pictures of yourself - in order to pull me back in. :)

Don't just take my word for it. A few other members have caught on too:

OMD wrote on 3^rd Jun, 2011 at 4:22pm:

Of all people that got you to come out of your shell happens to be the pressure of "Larb Dip"?  I'm speechless. LOL

JSEA wrote on 4^th Jun, 2011 at 5:59am:

You changed your name too! What is with this sudden sharing personal info? I think maybe you have fallen for Larb Dip...

Where do you think you got all this newfound confidence from, Saovaluck? Yep. That's right, from the one-and-only Larb Dip the charismatic-slash-THE MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER. We've known each other long enough (with tolerance) so lets not argue about it. ;)